Hello all! Well here it is! Not exactly as detailed as I wanted but it works and has Irish Colors. For now it does the job!
NEW BLOG WITH BIG ANNOUNCEMENT!
Tuesday, July 16, 2013
Last Update
I know I said that my new blog would be launched today, but things didn't quite match up with my calendar as well as I thought...I will explain in later blog. Just know that its going to be big!!!
Either way, by tomorrow night the new blog will be up and running! In the mean time, enjoy Links cuteness.
Either way, by tomorrow night the new blog will be up and running! In the mean time, enjoy Links cuteness.
Wednesday, June 26, 2013
Change Will Do You Good
Sorry for the lapse in updates recently! I will say though that our household is going through a very big change and soon you will all be in on it! The month of June is always so busy for me with work. I have practice every day plus night practice 2 days a week, have to seed a swim meet every week, and every Saturday in June I have a swim meet to coach.
My blog will also be making a dramatic change with it getting a complete makeover. I will not be posting until July 16th, and then you will see a link to my new blog. With all the changes occurring in our household a new blog is utterly and completely necessary. Don't worry my usual humor, observations, and stories will still be there. It will just have a new vibe and new feel all still related to motherhood! After a month of having the new blog up, babyseahors.blogspot.com will no longer be active so look for updates over at the new site!
By the way my recent lapse in blogging has a lot to do with the fact its very difficult to type with only one hand with Link in the other...
Lincoln also had his first sleepover at my parents house. I hated it, they loved it. I survived.
He also got babysat by another swim family. I took their 14 year old to the gym for a workout that we both did. They watched Link. Fair trade if you ask me!!
He also got a new toy which makes him laugh uncontrollably.
Link and Shelia Monster have become good friends. Such good friends that this morning, I was in the kitchen making a bagel. I looked over and Link is chewing on Sheila's blue rubber bone. Gross! I have never seen Sheila so excited. Link also had to of rolled over at least 4 times and scoot to it. He's on the move.
Hopefully this update will hold everyone over until July 16th with MAJOR blog changes!!
~Julia
My blog will also be making a dramatic change with it getting a complete makeover. I will not be posting until July 16th, and then you will see a link to my new blog. With all the changes occurring in our household a new blog is utterly and completely necessary. Don't worry my usual humor, observations, and stories will still be there. It will just have a new vibe and new feel all still related to motherhood! After a month of having the new blog up, babyseahors.blogspot.com will no longer be active so look for updates over at the new site!
By the way my recent lapse in blogging has a lot to do with the fact its very difficult to type with only one hand with Link in the other...
I write my workouts in the morning and he likes to help. One time he turned the computer off...which also stopped the printer.... which stopped printing my work out. Thanks baby boy. |
Lincoln also had his first sleepover at my parents house. I hated it, they loved it. I survived.
Shooting Uncle Zach. It's ok Link, I understand how you feel. I lived with him until I was 18. |
He also got babysat by another swim family. I took their 14 year old to the gym for a workout that we both did. They watched Link. Fair trade if you ask me!!
I don't think he's digging the pink princess blanket. |
Yes its a panda. I have named him Mr.Biggles One because it sounds like giggles Two we are Austin Powers fans. |
He loves his Baby Bjorn.
Dad gets home at 5:30 and Link goes in it. Doesn't get out until 7:30ish. |
Sheila knows one day Link is going to pick up one of her toys and play. |
Nathan's sister is moving to NYC for a very cool and amazing opportunity! This is her last week at UCSB so hence the onesie this week.
Hopefully this update will hold everyone over until July 16th with MAJOR blog changes!!
~Julia
Wednesday, May 29, 2013
Partying Mommy?
This past week and weekend was filled with a lot of fun! On Tuesday I had my cousin Sara's bachelorette party and I was out until 2am! We we're of course safe and had rented a limo for the evening. We hit all the bars in Sac that we could. It was extremely fun, but the next morning I was feeling a bit tired.
Then this Friday we had Sara's wedding to Tyler. Nate's parents came and baby sat and we we're out late again, but it was fun and worth it!
One thing that I have learned about being a parent is that we can not just be partying to your hearts content like we used to. This type of staying out late really gets reserved for major events like weddings and bachelorette parties. I have learned though that you can still have a successful night of kicking back a few if you organize before hand.
1. Always, always have a sober parent. When Nate and I have a big even to go to we make sure one of us is the designated sober parent and it stays that way.
2. Find a babysitter you can trust to be up late with your child. If I know that I am going to be going out and having a good time I make sure the baby is with people who I trust completely.
3. Watch how much you drink. If you are at the point where you cannot drive, throwing up, and feel like you are reliving your first two years of college, then maybe you should be thinking about this whole I can still go out and have a kid thing.
4. Leave the drinking gross amounts of alcohol to others. Drunk people, for the most part, make great people watching. Just watch them because they will provide a good amount of entertainment.
While I wasn't out late these are the awesome pictures I have gotten of Link:
We also spent this memorial day weekend in the hospital with my sister who had serious complications with her asthma. She was recently diagnosed with pneumonia by her doctor at school and by the holiday weekend she had enough. Her doctor and nurse were amazing and I'm glad we got it taken care of!
~Julia
Then this Friday we had Sara's wedding to Tyler. Nate's parents came and baby sat and we we're out late again, but it was fun and worth it!
One thing that I have learned about being a parent is that we can not just be partying to your hearts content like we used to. This type of staying out late really gets reserved for major events like weddings and bachelorette parties. I have learned though that you can still have a successful night of kicking back a few if you organize before hand.
1. Always, always have a sober parent. When Nate and I have a big even to go to we make sure one of us is the designated sober parent and it stays that way.
2. Find a babysitter you can trust to be up late with your child. If I know that I am going to be going out and having a good time I make sure the baby is with people who I trust completely.
3. Watch how much you drink. If you are at the point where you cannot drive, throwing up, and feel like you are reliving your first two years of college, then maybe you should be thinking about this whole I can still go out and have a kid thing.
4. Leave the drinking gross amounts of alcohol to others. Drunk people, for the most part, make great people watching. Just watch them because they will provide a good amount of entertainment.
While I wasn't out late these are the awesome pictures I have gotten of Link:
Lincoln has also developed a new habit that I have about 7 pictures of so far. See if you can spot his new way of saying hello:
We also spent this memorial day weekend in the hospital with my sister who had serious complications with her asthma. She was recently diagnosed with pneumonia by her doctor at school and by the holiday weekend she had enough. Her doctor and nurse were amazing and I'm glad we got it taken care of!
Getting her breathing on! |
Sunday, May 19, 2013
Easy Baby
Lincoln spent all day today from 7am-2pm with me at work! We are so blessed that I have two part time jobs where I can bring my kid to work every day. My swim team, that I have been loyal to for four years, lets me bring Lincoln to work with me every day. That means he is going to be out at the pool from about 8:30am-12pm, every day Monday through Friday, starting the first week in June until the end of July. They are so accommodating that I even get to bring a swing and store in the concessions room. Then from end of July to November, I get to bring Lincoln to water polo practice from 3:00-5:30 five days a week, plus tournaments on the weekends. All I know is that this kid better like swimming and water polo or else his life is going to be pretty boring, in regards to sports, because I plan on coaching until I die!
As a quick practice run, I brought Lincoln to the swim meet today all by myself and he did so well. I got so many comments not only on his cuteness but how 'easy' he is. I'm not going to lie, and I hope I'm not shooting my self in the foot, but Lincoln is easy. He loves being passed around to other people, will sleep wherever, will eat wherever, and not fuss too much. One parent even told me not to have anymore children because the next one will probably be an absolute terror since Link is so well behaved. HA! I really just keep praying that it stays this way....
It was so nice and comforting knowing that a three hour practice is going to be nothing to this dude since he handled a 6 hour meet so well! Plus, he is much more enjoyable first thing in the morning.
I love working for my team and I love more so that they are family friendly. I'm so blessed to be working with a team that values me so much as a coach that they let me bring my kid to work! I also have so many parents that want to love on him and baby sit him while they wait for their kids to finish practice. Same thing goes for my high school coaching job.
In other news, Lincoln can roll over now! Yee haw!
Lincoln is easy and I will probably look back on this entry when he is a teenager and think oh gosh why didn't he just stay this easy!
~Julia
As a quick practice run, I brought Lincoln to the swim meet today all by myself and he did so well. I got so many comments not only on his cuteness but how 'easy' he is. I'm not going to lie, and I hope I'm not shooting my self in the foot, but Lincoln is easy. He loves being passed around to other people, will sleep wherever, will eat wherever, and not fuss too much. One parent even told me not to have anymore children because the next one will probably be an absolute terror since Link is so well behaved. HA! I really just keep praying that it stays this way....
It was so nice and comforting knowing that a three hour practice is going to be nothing to this dude since he handled a 6 hour meet so well! Plus, he is much more enjoyable first thing in the morning.
I love working for my team and I love more so that they are family friendly. I'm so blessed to be working with a team that values me so much as a coach that they let me bring my kid to work! I also have so many parents that want to love on him and baby sit him while they wait for their kids to finish practice. Same thing goes for my high school coaching job.
In my coaching gear and looking tired after Saturdays meet. |
In other news, Lincoln can roll over now! Yee haw!
Crazy hair and loves blowing spit bubbles. Such a boy! |
Bath time after I got home on Saturday |
More bad hair and spit bubbles. |
Sleepy time |
Playing video games with Uncle Zach. |
With Daddy at Uncle Zach's section swim meet. He got 2nd and 3rd overall! |
Lincoln is easy and I will probably look back on this entry when he is a teenager and think oh gosh why didn't he just stay this easy!
~Julia
Wednesday, May 8, 2013
Confessions of A New Mommy
Lincoln just passed the 3 month mark and I have learned a whole lot about how no mother or father is perfect. What I do know is that God gave us this baby. We are the perfect parents for him. It doesn't mean we're perfect, just that we're a perfect match to Lincoln. It doesn't even matter how many silly mistakes I make, like bumping his head on the roof of the car, I'm still Lincoln's mom and Nate is his dad.
Here are a few examples of the accidents that have occurred in the Roos household as of last week:
1. Not changing Lincoln's diaper properly.
For about three days, Lincoln was leaking like crazy out of the top of his diaper. It was driving me nuts because he was constantly wet and I had to do a shit ton of laundry. Then I figured out why he was leaking. It was because I did not 'secure' his little wiener in the down position when putting on a new diaper. So for all of you new moms to boys out there, make sure the pee pee is down or else your house will become piss city for a bit.
2. Letting my son pee on his face.
That's right you read that properly. Lincoln has peed on his face when I was changing his diaper.
A few days ago I pulled off Lincoln's diaper and he immediately started peeing like a fire hose. Thankfully most of it landed on the floor or on the changing pad. I figured he was done peeing, and I didn't want a puddle of piss on the floor by my feet. Instead of finishing his diaper change, I bent down and wiped up the puddle. When I looked back up at Lincoln to finish his changing, he had peed all over his face and even in his mouth. He of course had the biggest smile ever because he saw me reappear, not even caring about the salty taste in his mouth. It was hilarious seeing my childs pee face with a huge smile, and we both just stood there and laughed/smiled. (Of course he received a bath after this incident).
3. Letting my child sit in a poo ridden jammies and diaper for about 40 minutes.
Yes Lincoln had a complete blow out, but he was happily playing and his jammies were thick enough I didn't know what the heck was going on. All I knew was that he was on his play mat and he was happy. Then Sheila began licking his behind. Yes, our dog was licking up the poo that had leaked out his jammies. I then picked Lincoln up, scolded Sheila, and just thought it was pee that had leaked out again since it was a tad wet.
I then took off his jammies to this sight:
I immediately got my phone and took a picture of it to text to Nate. I just wrote this: "Here is how my morning is going, how about yours?" Nathan responded with: "That Baby!" Like Lincoln had just done something cute or something. Not cute, and still gives me the chills knowing that Sheila actually got some poo flavored licks in. (Of course he got a bath again after this.)
My mom also always asks for a picture of Lincoln each day doing something cute. I sent her this picture! HA!
4. Forgetting to pack an extra formula while going car shopping.
Nathan got a sweet new ride this weekend. We weren't planning on buying a car we just wanted to test drive a few models, so we only packed one bottle. Well we actually ended up buying a car, but were only prepared for a few hours out, not 6! Lincoln had already ate a bottle about 3 hours into the car shopping and about 3 hours later when we were about to sign papers he was hangry again. I then just rocked my child asleep while he was hungry. He survived and I fed him about an hour later.
Nate and I are not perfect, but we're perfect for Lincoln. If you are a new mom and think you are not doing a good job, just think about my poo ridden morning and I'm sure it will make you feel better about your self.
~Julia
Here are a few examples of the accidents that have occurred in the Roos household as of last week:
1. Not changing Lincoln's diaper properly.
For about three days, Lincoln was leaking like crazy out of the top of his diaper. It was driving me nuts because he was constantly wet and I had to do a shit ton of laundry. Then I figured out why he was leaking. It was because I did not 'secure' his little wiener in the down position when putting on a new diaper. So for all of you new moms to boys out there, make sure the pee pee is down or else your house will become piss city for a bit.
2. Letting my son pee on his face.
That's right you read that properly. Lincoln has peed on his face when I was changing his diaper.
A few days ago I pulled off Lincoln's diaper and he immediately started peeing like a fire hose. Thankfully most of it landed on the floor or on the changing pad. I figured he was done peeing, and I didn't want a puddle of piss on the floor by my feet. Instead of finishing his diaper change, I bent down and wiped up the puddle. When I looked back up at Lincoln to finish his changing, he had peed all over his face and even in his mouth. He of course had the biggest smile ever because he saw me reappear, not even caring about the salty taste in his mouth. It was hilarious seeing my childs pee face with a huge smile, and we both just stood there and laughed/smiled. (Of course he received a bath after this incident).
3. Letting my child sit in a poo ridden jammies and diaper for about 40 minutes.
Yes Lincoln had a complete blow out, but he was happily playing and his jammies were thick enough I didn't know what the heck was going on. All I knew was that he was on his play mat and he was happy. Then Sheila began licking his behind. Yes, our dog was licking up the poo that had leaked out his jammies. I then picked Lincoln up, scolded Sheila, and just thought it was pee that had leaked out again since it was a tad wet.
I then took off his jammies to this sight:
Oh lord...help me now. |
My mom also always asks for a picture of Lincoln each day doing something cute. I sent her this picture! HA!
4. Forgetting to pack an extra formula while going car shopping.
Nathan got a sweet new ride this weekend. We weren't planning on buying a car we just wanted to test drive a few models, so we only packed one bottle. Well we actually ended up buying a car, but were only prepared for a few hours out, not 6! Lincoln had already ate a bottle about 3 hours into the car shopping and about 3 hours later when we were about to sign papers he was hangry again. I then just rocked my child asleep while he was hungry. He survived and I fed him about an hour later.
Nate's slick new ride! |
Nate and I are not perfect, but we're perfect for Lincoln. If you are a new mom and think you are not doing a good job, just think about my poo ridden morning and I'm sure it will make you feel better about your self.
Smiling in his shirt that his Marmy and Grandpa got for him while in Amsterdam. |
Just being cute in overalls. |
~Julia
Tuesday, April 30, 2013
Mommy Knows Best
Having Lincoln has made me realize that I know what Lincoln wants and needs more than anybody else on this planet (except for Daddy), and I need to own this knowledge. I know his cry, what each cry means and I don't have to guess. I know if he's tired, hungry, just plain uncomfortable, bored, or just wanting to be in his swing.
We have started feeding Lincoln cereal and trying different pureed fruits and vegetables. I know he's 3 months old. I know people think he's too young, including his doctor. I also know that I'm his mom and our baby is constantly hangry.
Hangry is a verb we use in our house to describe Lincoln when he is hungry while being simultaneously angry about being hungry. It results in red face screaming and what we call 'Hulk Baby Smash' mode. He only enters Hulk Baby Smash mode when he is hangry! Any other emotion is accompanied with whining, not red faced screaming.
Our baby is hangry and he needs a bit more than formula to keep his belly full, so he can sleep through the night. He has been waking up at 3:30 every night to eat because he's hangry. The day we started feeding him cereal and fruits, he began sleeping a solid 7-9 hours every night! He was just so tired during the day, that I know he was not getting enough sleep from waking up 1-2 times a night to eat because 6 oz. of formula just wasn't cutting it. Lincoln is so much happier and we're all getting solid sleep now!
Now we just have to get him sleeping in a flat surface aka his crib....
He's not going to die from a whole 2 oz. of cereal mixed with veggies/fruit and formula a day. I don't care what my doctor and books say. I'm starting our baby on solid foods because Mommy knows best.
~Julia
We have started feeding Lincoln cereal and trying different pureed fruits and vegetables. I know he's 3 months old. I know people think he's too young, including his doctor. I also know that I'm his mom and our baby is constantly hangry.
Hangry is a verb we use in our house to describe Lincoln when he is hungry while being simultaneously angry about being hungry. It results in red face screaming and what we call 'Hulk Baby Smash' mode. He only enters Hulk Baby Smash mode when he is hangry! Any other emotion is accompanied with whining, not red faced screaming.
Our baby is hangry and he needs a bit more than formula to keep his belly full, so he can sleep through the night. He has been waking up at 3:30 every night to eat because he's hangry. The day we started feeding him cereal and fruits, he began sleeping a solid 7-9 hours every night! He was just so tired during the day, that I know he was not getting enough sleep from waking up 1-2 times a night to eat because 6 oz. of formula just wasn't cutting it. Lincoln is so much happier and we're all getting solid sleep now!
Now we just have to get him sleeping in a flat surface aka his crib....
About to realize he's in his car seat, in a car that's not moving. Let the whining commence. |
Good morning! |
Watching Hoosiers on AMC. Such a good classic movie about basketball. If you haven't seen it you need to! |
Being cute trying to crawl. |
Matching Daddy with all his striped polo onesies. |
He's not going to die from a whole 2 oz. of cereal mixed with veggies/fruit and formula a day. I don't care what my doctor and books say. I'm starting our baby on solid foods because Mommy knows best.
~Julia
Monday, April 22, 2013
Poop!
One thing that I did not realize that being a new parent would consist of is how much Nate and I talk about poop. We are both constantly asking each other, "When was the last time Lincoln pooped? Did it look normal? Hey come check this out, is this ok?" I have never looked, wiped, smelled so much poop in my life. I also did not think that such a tiny creature would be capable of the amount of poo that Link has each day. I know that I am not the only parent out there worried about her kids poo because if you google normal baby then poop is the third entry down on automatic search. There is also a whole chapter dedicated to poop in the first year baby book.
I know that we obsess over poo because it is one of the only factors that can tell you if your baby is ill, constipated, or just not feeling good in general. I have learned though that it really is not that big of a deal as long as your baby is pooping once a day, it does not have blood, diarrhea looking, is completely black or white in color, or hard and looks like grown up poo (meaning constipation). Otherwise baby poo can be the color of a packet of skittles minus the red. There is of course the what I like to call the transition poo from birth to about day 3 where it is black and tar looking. Once they pass this stuff, your baby should be pooping normal poos.
One thing no body tells you about is the infamous green poo. Lincoln poops some really nice seedy, yellow poo. Then one morning I got up to change his diaper. I opened the diaper and BAM! green poop filling up his whole diaper. I first though OMG! Lincoln has some type of disease or is horribly ill. I then went to doctor google and found out that it is normal for a green poo every now and then. Since Lincoln is formula fed, it is common for formula babies to have a green poop here and there since their formula is iron fortified. So yes, green poo is normal and no your kid will not die. I also found out that some infants just poo green poo. AWESOME!
Here is a very informative link on baby shit, and warning it has pictures (which I find helpful but others might find gross): poop link w/pics
I also have pulled an uh-oh when I was checking Lincoln's bottom for poo with the good ole' sniff test. We were in the parked car, and I was pretty sure Lincoln had taken a fine dump when I was driving. I then proceeded to grab him out of his car seat, lifted him up to sniff, and BOOM! hit is head on top of the roof...whoops! I felt horrible but he didn't even notice. Now, that puts a another meaning in hard-headed.
Such a pretty day! |
Eating some lunch. The people behind us loved Link! I look tired because I am. Love genetics and dark circles :( |
~Julia
Friday, April 12, 2013
Getting Things Done With A Baby
As we all know, I am continually working very hard to get back to my pre-pregnancy weight. I have been working out 5-6 days a week, but Lincoln's mood really dictates what activity I will be doing that day. This is how it just goes with a 9 week old. I have found that trying to get Lincoln on a schedule at night is imperative to sleeping at night, but during the day I tend to let him figure it out, and he really has. He tends to get up at 6am for about an hour then sleeps again from 7-8am. He will usually fall asleep again from 10ish to 12. Then he is up all afternoon until bed time at 8:30. On some days he will take a little cat nap from 3-4, but not always. I have found that forcing him into doing things at this age is just not worth it and just stresses us both out.
I have concluded that from his 10am-12pm nap is when I try to get all my stuff done for the day. I will sleep with him until 8am, then I'm up and ready to go.
To make things easier I always have at least one load of laundry ready to go, so that each day I can get some laundry done. That is the first thing I do once Lincoln passes out in his swing. I then vacuum every other day, and the other days I wipe down all surfaces and get to the bathrooms. The major things like dusting, cleaning base boards, and major detail work I leave to the weekends where Nate is there to help. I then will water the plants inside and outside. Once all that is complete, I give Sheila some attention and then I work out. I never sacrifice my work out time. If I don't get to a chore I wanted to do so be it, it will be there tomorrow. I have also found that cleaning while you go makes things much easier. Don't let dishes, laundry and other shit just pile up. If you clean while you go it makes getting other chores done so much quicker.
In order to get my baby weight off, I have implemented several things to help. The one thing that I love to do is run. Since I started coaching again at night at 5:15pm-9pm I have had to do away with my night jogging with Nate. I will be picking it up again in about 3 more weeks when Lincoln is 3 months old and is large enough to use the fantastic baby jogging stroller I am planning on buying! This will make things much easier because then I can work out at any point during the morning and even Shelia can get some exercise too!
When I do run though I use the Nike plus running app. I think it is great for those of us who like to run 10 miles or less each run and it keeps track of your route using a GPS off of your phone. The app shows how fast you were running during the route and it keeps track of your miles and time per mile. You can also program it before you start your run to how many miles you want to run. It then keeps track and will tell you in your head phones when you hit each mile and how fast you are running. Oh and on top of it, it takes all the music on your iphone and plays it while you run. It also creates a playlist of certain music that plays fast beats so when you need a pick me up during your run, you just tap your phone for a 'powersong'. Seriously some cool shit.
In the meantime, I have began using You Tube as my source for all things fitness. I did not realize, but there are so many great work out videos on there! My favorite would be the BeFit station by Lionsgate. They take a bunch of their workout DVD's and post certain full segments of each one. It is fantastic. You can also rent other work out DVD's from their station too. It's truly amazing. It's so nice to be able to clear out the living room, have Lincoln in his swing and work up a sweat.
Working out is also not a lot of fun unless you have music motivation. I use Pandora and they have actual workout music from hip-hop to dance to top hits. This is great.
I have begun coaching again but it is actually nice because it gives Lincoln and Nate time together, gives me a break, and I love bringing home a paycheck. It really helps with me mentally to not just feel like I am living in baby land all the time.
One thing that is starting to scare me, in a good way, with Lincoln is how strong he is. Man he is small but mighty. He's so strong that I can no longer leave the room if he is not strapped into something because he can roll him self out. He also knows how to push himself around the floor on his stomach using his knees and grabbing with his hands. I used to have him do tummy time in his pack n' play, but in the last couple of days he has started scooting himself so quickly across the pack n' play that he ends up just smashing his head into the walls. Now, I just lay a huge blanket out and let him go to town on his belly in the living room and that gives him ample space to wiggle and move. He also can scoot him self around on his back using his legs and just pushing his head around. I like that he is developing and its really awesome to see, but I didn't think at 9 weeks we would be at the point where I would have a pseudo-mobile baby. At his last doctor's appointment our doctor was even surprised how strong he is and said, "Yeah I would watch out for crawling/rolling baby sooner that you think." Great... Hopefully I can get a video up here next time of him in action.
~Julia
I have concluded that from his 10am-12pm nap is when I try to get all my stuff done for the day. I will sleep with him until 8am, then I'm up and ready to go.
To make things easier I always have at least one load of laundry ready to go, so that each day I can get some laundry done. That is the first thing I do once Lincoln passes out in his swing. I then vacuum every other day, and the other days I wipe down all surfaces and get to the bathrooms. The major things like dusting, cleaning base boards, and major detail work I leave to the weekends where Nate is there to help. I then will water the plants inside and outside. Once all that is complete, I give Sheila some attention and then I work out. I never sacrifice my work out time. If I don't get to a chore I wanted to do so be it, it will be there tomorrow. I have also found that cleaning while you go makes things much easier. Don't let dishes, laundry and other shit just pile up. If you clean while you go it makes getting other chores done so much quicker.
In order to get my baby weight off, I have implemented several things to help. The one thing that I love to do is run. Since I started coaching again at night at 5:15pm-9pm I have had to do away with my night jogging with Nate. I will be picking it up again in about 3 more weeks when Lincoln is 3 months old and is large enough to use the fantastic baby jogging stroller I am planning on buying! This will make things much easier because then I can work out at any point during the morning and even Shelia can get some exercise too!
When I do run though I use the Nike plus running app. I think it is great for those of us who like to run 10 miles or less each run and it keeps track of your route using a GPS off of your phone. The app shows how fast you were running during the route and it keeps track of your miles and time per mile. You can also program it before you start your run to how many miles you want to run. It then keeps track and will tell you in your head phones when you hit each mile and how fast you are running. Oh and on top of it, it takes all the music on your iphone and plays it while you run. It also creates a playlist of certain music that plays fast beats so when you need a pick me up during your run, you just tap your phone for a 'powersong'. Seriously some cool shit.
In the meantime, I have began using You Tube as my source for all things fitness. I did not realize, but there are so many great work out videos on there! My favorite would be the BeFit station by Lionsgate. They take a bunch of their workout DVD's and post certain full segments of each one. It is fantastic. You can also rent other work out DVD's from their station too. It's truly amazing. It's so nice to be able to clear out the living room, have Lincoln in his swing and work up a sweat.
Working out is also not a lot of fun unless you have music motivation. I use Pandora and they have actual workout music from hip-hop to dance to top hits. This is great.
I have begun coaching again but it is actually nice because it gives Lincoln and Nate time together, gives me a break, and I love bringing home a paycheck. It really helps with me mentally to not just feel like I am living in baby land all the time.
One thing that is starting to scare me, in a good way, with Lincoln is how strong he is. Man he is small but mighty. He's so strong that I can no longer leave the room if he is not strapped into something because he can roll him self out. He also knows how to push himself around the floor on his stomach using his knees and grabbing with his hands. I used to have him do tummy time in his pack n' play, but in the last couple of days he has started scooting himself so quickly across the pack n' play that he ends up just smashing his head into the walls. Now, I just lay a huge blanket out and let him go to town on his belly in the living room and that gives him ample space to wiggle and move. He also can scoot him self around on his back using his legs and just pushing his head around. I like that he is developing and its really awesome to see, but I didn't think at 9 weeks we would be at the point where I would have a pseudo-mobile baby. At his last doctor's appointment our doctor was even surprised how strong he is and said, "Yeah I would watch out for crawling/rolling baby sooner that you think." Great... Hopefully I can get a video up here next time of him in action.
Ahhh...this face means time to get stuff done. |
Sunday, April 7, 2013
Baby Shots SUCK.
I know that logically in my mind Lincoln needs his vaccines, but man are baby shots the worst fucking thing ever. I would say only watching holocaust and slavery historical videos makes my heart bleed, as much if not a little bit more. I mean, I would think watching a whole group of humans suffer surpasses baby shots, but I would say only by a tiny bit if its your own kid getting them.
Lincoln handled them like a champ. I, of course, laughed in order to avoid crying. The nurse administering the shots gave me what I would call, 'the worst parent on the planet' stare when I started to laugh. I then shot her a dodgy look and said, "I have to laugh to stop my self from crying, we don't need two crying babies in the room." She then smiled. Lesson is don't judge others before knowing. I unfortunately suck at that, so maybe the lord was trying to teach me a lesson. The nurse then missed one of the pricked spots to bandage, and I got Lincoln's blood on one of my really nice Antropologie shirts. Thank goodness, I got the blood out when we got home or else I would of asked the doctors office for a 55 dollar reimbursement. (Just kidding...well kinda).
What Lincoln thinks of baby shots. |
Lincoln has started to throw up/vomit after meals thanks to the oral vaccine he got at the doctor's office for rotavirus. Nathan and I are huge advocates of vaccines and Lincoln will still be getting the second series of the rotavirus, even though he suffers from one of the side effects. It's not like he's vomiting a lot, just after some feedings and Lincoln has never been a 'throw up' baby. It has been decreasing since Thursday. I'm sure in a few days it will disappear. For whatever reason, he likes to throw up on me more than Nathan. He has gotten Nathan only once with his milky white spew and has gotten me about 10 times. I think he secretly knows that Daddy is usually in his work garments and his mom is in sweats, so he figures my outfit probably deserves a bit of throw up.
Talking right before a throw up episode. I'm sure he was trying to warn me.... |
One thing that I have given up on for now is actually looking nice during the day, if I have no where to go. This has lead to me answering the door several times braless, deordantless, makeupless, in sweats, and hair in a nasty tangle bun. I would say our mailman and FedEx guy probably thinks I'm a complete schlupdinka, but I don't give a shit. I have a crying baby and barking dog here people! Then again they are older men, easily in their 60's, so my braless appearance might be welcomed. Hell, I'll take it. One positive is that the little old Jehovah Witness lady, that used to bother me by trying to convert me on a weekly basis, has stopped coming to our door after seeing me disheveled a few too many times. (NOTE: I have nothing against Jehova Witnesses, but seriously coming to my door weekly when I make it very clear that the man and I upstairs are doing fantastic is a bit much.)
Lincoln now weighs 11lbs. 4oz. and is 22.5 inches long. He now fits into a few 3 month clothing items! Hallelujah! His wardrobe has been increasing in the past week by a lot and I could not be happier.
Overalls finally fit! Mama's favorite! |
This weekend Nate and I got to landscaping. Well rather, Nathan did most of it because Lincoln was not coopering that well. Oh, and the fact that he is a guy and can get things done about 10 times faster than I can had a lot do with it as well. I did get around to planting and weeding some areas though when Lincoln was napping or allowing us to put him in his Bimbo (Bumpo) seat.
Peppers and tomatoes One of the plants is called the Abe Lincoln tomato. Of course we had to get it! |
Italian Parsley, Chocolate Mint (for cocktails), Thyme and Cherry Tomato plants |
We are going to finish building/landscaping this hydrangea plant area next weekend. |
Where Lincoln sat in about 30 min spans for 2x's that day. |
~Julia
Tuesday, April 2, 2013
Spending Time With Others
Today is my 25th birthday and I could not be happier with the way my life has turned out so far. I am so blessed to have an amazing husband (who takes baby Lincoln almost every night!), a house that we own, three amazing pets, great friends, fantastic jobs, the best families, and of course our baby boy.
Speaking of great families Lincoln has the best around. I seriously could not ask for better family and in-laws. To me it was very important that Lincoln got to grow up with aunts, uncles and grandparents since I was about 3,000 miles away from all of my extended family growing up. This past weekend we spent 4 days just showing Lincoln off to all of his relatives and I could not of loved it more. Lincoln got to meet his Auntie Kaity on Thursday night. I just about cried when she held him because he had now met all of mine and Nate's brothers and sisters. It felt like I had just completed a mission with him being able to meet everybody, and I know that he will have the best time growing up with so much love.
Prior to Auntie Kaity meeting Lincoln she had decided that she would love to do a photo shoot with him. I of course agreed! Lincoln however had other ideas about his photo shoot when he decided to scratch the inside of his eye right before his shower. I usually clip his nails after his shower, so he just beat me to the punch. I decided to place a small, tiny amount of anti bacterial cream on it and it cleared up the next day, hence she was able to get some good quality photos. I know its not recommend to put neosporin on a baby, but honestly its not going to kill him and he looked good the next day. So sue me. I will post the whole photo shoot from my shutterfly account.
Lincoln also received a Bumpo from his Marmy! He loves watching TV in it. I don't care what others think about babies watching TV. Reality is that he likes it, its not going to kill him, and it really only keeps his attention for about 10 minutes. It's really not that big of a deal people!
One thing that I have learned from visiting all the family we did this weekend is that its ok to let other relatives/family friends you trust to be with your baby, and more so take care of your baby. It brings me so much joy to see my siblings, parents, grandparents and family friends just love on Lincoln. Yes, I will admit that by Easter Sunday I was dying to hold Lincoln, but I knew that our relatives love it just as much. I also understand that there are some families out there who don't know their boundaries and that limits/lines need to be set. There is a fine line between boundaries though and selfishness. Choose wisely how you establish them, or else you could be cutting out a relationship that you might want back in a few years. Nate and I are so blessed to have such great families that boundary establishing has not really had to happen, and I know that it will stay this way. I have had to set boundaries with some extended family but that is just not something I wish to write about here. Maybe once I have more time I can actually sit and write an entry on boundary establishing, so look for that.
I just love our baby and am so glad he got to spend time with others! It was so great!
~Julia
Speaking of great families Lincoln has the best around. I seriously could not ask for better family and in-laws. To me it was very important that Lincoln got to grow up with aunts, uncles and grandparents since I was about 3,000 miles away from all of my extended family growing up. This past weekend we spent 4 days just showing Lincoln off to all of his relatives and I could not of loved it more. Lincoln got to meet his Auntie Kaity on Thursday night. I just about cried when she held him because he had now met all of mine and Nate's brothers and sisters. It felt like I had just completed a mission with him being able to meet everybody, and I know that he will have the best time growing up with so much love.
Prior to Auntie Kaity meeting Lincoln she had decided that she would love to do a photo shoot with him. I of course agreed! Lincoln however had other ideas about his photo shoot when he decided to scratch the inside of his eye right before his shower. I usually clip his nails after his shower, so he just beat me to the punch. I decided to place a small, tiny amount of anti bacterial cream on it and it cleared up the next day, hence she was able to get some good quality photos. I know its not recommend to put neosporin on a baby, but honestly its not going to kill him and he looked good the next day. So sue me. I will post the whole photo shoot from my shutterfly account.
The minor damage in the corner of the eye. |
Beautiful! |
Lincoln also received a Bumpo from his Marmy! He loves watching TV in it. I don't care what others think about babies watching TV. Reality is that he likes it, its not going to kill him, and it really only keeps his attention for about 10 minutes. It's really not that big of a deal people!
Loves the TV! |
I just love our baby and am so glad he got to spend time with others! It was so great!
~Julia
Sunday, March 17, 2013
Happy St. Patrick's Day
Happy St. Patrick's Day! Lincoln is festive and ready for the big day!
Lincoln is a great baby traveler. He has already been to three different swim meets and has done well! He has also spent the night at my parents house in Ripon for two whole nights and did fantastic!
He has a big 5 day vacation coming up for Easter. We will be going to Turlock, Ripon and to Monterey for his first beach excursion. It will be a great Easter weekend celebrating family, and I don't think the lord would have it any other way to celebrate His resurrection. :)
Traveling with a newborn can be difficult, but only if you make it that way.
There are plenty of things that can be done in advance to make sure that you are prepared and ready to go on time none-the-less!
1. Have a good attitude.
I have found that when I stress, the baby stresses. You know this isn't going to be as easy as before you had children, so just embrace that. If you do, it will be a much better vacation for all involved. The baby will poop and throw up when you are not expecting it, so just deal with it and move on. If you forget something, don't worry that's why we have things called stores. Most of the time we travel far distances to have fun/vacation, so do that have fun and vacation! Trust me you will have so much more fun and less stress.
2. Avoid a departure time when you know the baby is going to be eating.
If you can, plan on leaving after you know when your baby is going to want to eat, that way you are not struggling with a hungry child and trying to get out the door. Generally, nap time follows eating time so that way baby will want to sleep for a good part of the trip.
3. Have an 'essentials' bag in the car at all times.
Find a place to store a little bit of diapers, wipes, 1-2 outfits, and small toy. This makes small trips to store easier that way you don't have to lug that big diaper bag around and you have everything you need for those 'just in case' moments
4. Plan ahead of time.
Pack all the baby's stuff ahead of time. Make a list of things that you need. Don't under pack! If its a long car ride, say 4+ hours, try to plan stops into your route about 15 min before feeding times that way you can stop and get everything done in one spot and baby is not screaming its head off in hunger. Make sure the car's gas tank is full before leaving the house. If you know your baby struggles with explosive poop and throwing up pack lots of wipes, towels and an extra outfit for yourself!
These are just some small things that work for our family when traveling and I hope they will help you! I know traveling with a newborn/children can be difficult and things don't always go as planned, but I have learned that if you plan ahead a lot of extra stress can be completely obsolete. When you get in a situation where nothing is going as planned, the baby is freaking out and you have a flat tire on the side of the road just remember to laugh it off because if your biggest problem is a flat tire and a screaming baby, I think you will be just fine in the end. If you find yourself stressing just remember to smile and if you 'lose your cool' then just forgive yourself, and move on to the next part of your tip. :)
Lincoln is doing well as always. Our days are filled with smiles, formula, sleeping, swinging, pooping, peeing, reading, playmat time, and exercising when dad gets home. He also got to meet his Aunt Ginger and Cousin Sadie this past weekend at one of the swim meets he attended and they were just lovin' on him! I love seeing our family members with him.
Have a great St. Patrick's Day,
Julia
Already 6 weeks old tomorrow! |
Lincoln is a great baby traveler. He has already been to three different swim meets and has done well! He has also spent the night at my parents house in Ripon for two whole nights and did fantastic!
He has a big 5 day vacation coming up for Easter. We will be going to Turlock, Ripon and to Monterey for his first beach excursion. It will be a great Easter weekend celebrating family, and I don't think the lord would have it any other way to celebrate His resurrection. :)
Traveling with a newborn can be difficult, but only if you make it that way.
There are plenty of things that can be done in advance to make sure that you are prepared and ready to go on time none-the-less!
1. Have a good attitude.
I have found that when I stress, the baby stresses. You know this isn't going to be as easy as before you had children, so just embrace that. If you do, it will be a much better vacation for all involved. The baby will poop and throw up when you are not expecting it, so just deal with it and move on. If you forget something, don't worry that's why we have things called stores. Most of the time we travel far distances to have fun/vacation, so do that have fun and vacation! Trust me you will have so much more fun and less stress.
2. Avoid a departure time when you know the baby is going to be eating.
If you can, plan on leaving after you know when your baby is going to want to eat, that way you are not struggling with a hungry child and trying to get out the door. Generally, nap time follows eating time so that way baby will want to sleep for a good part of the trip.
3. Have an 'essentials' bag in the car at all times.
Find a place to store a little bit of diapers, wipes, 1-2 outfits, and small toy. This makes small trips to store easier that way you don't have to lug that big diaper bag around and you have everything you need for those 'just in case' moments
4. Plan ahead of time.
Pack all the baby's stuff ahead of time. Make a list of things that you need. Don't under pack! If its a long car ride, say 4+ hours, try to plan stops into your route about 15 min before feeding times that way you can stop and get everything done in one spot and baby is not screaming its head off in hunger. Make sure the car's gas tank is full before leaving the house. If you know your baby struggles with explosive poop and throwing up pack lots of wipes, towels and an extra outfit for yourself!
These are just some small things that work for our family when traveling and I hope they will help you! I know traveling with a newborn/children can be difficult and things don't always go as planned, but I have learned that if you plan ahead a lot of extra stress can be completely obsolete. When you get in a situation where nothing is going as planned, the baby is freaking out and you have a flat tire on the side of the road just remember to laugh it off because if your biggest problem is a flat tire and a screaming baby, I think you will be just fine in the end. If you find yourself stressing just remember to smile and if you 'lose your cool' then just forgive yourself, and move on to the next part of your tip. :)
Lincoln is doing well as always. Our days are filled with smiles, formula, sleeping, swinging, pooping, peeing, reading, playmat time, and exercising when dad gets home. He also got to meet his Aunt Ginger and Cousin Sadie this past weekend at one of the swim meets he attended and they were just lovin' on him! I love seeing our family members with him.
Aunt Ginger snapped this cute pic! |
I run in front while they walk a bit slower behind. |
He will do this for a bit in the morning. |
Julia
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